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Showing posts with label Man. Show all posts
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Monday, September 29, 2014

Stock Your Home Bar Without Going Broke

If every guy had the time and money, we'd all build full-scale Irish pubs in our basements, with Guinness on draught and high-end whiskey flowing like water. Fortunately, you don't need to strike it rich to create a killer home bar.

"A great home bar, like most things a discerning man chooses, is about simplicity, authenticity and timelessness," says Tobin Ellis, former head bartender for Caesars Palace and the current principal consultant and owner of BarMagic of Las Vegas. "All you need is a collection of basic, but quality spirits; a small pantry of specialty ingredients and tools; some fresh fruit; a couple books; some ice and glasses; and you'll be channeling your inner Don Draper in no time."

How do you get set up in style without breaking the bank? Well, you probably don't want to just walk into a liquor store and start grabbing everything off the shelves. Ellis recommends adding these essentials to your home bar shopping list:

SPIRITS:

Ford's Gin, Four Roses Bourbon, Redemption Rye, Don Q Rum (light), Ron Zacapa Rum (dark), Punt y Mes Vermouth (sweet), Tequila Forteleza or Milagro Silver Tequila, Dolin Dry Vermouth (dry), Campari, and Tito's Vodka.  

MIXERS:

Sugar, agave nectar, fresh lemons, limes, oranges, angostura bitters, and ginger beer.

BAR TOOLS:

"For the man who likes his expensive toys, there is a world of nifty, respectable bar gadgets from $60 japanese spoons to $600 leather bar bags," Ellis says. "For the rest of us, you can buy everything you need for about $50."  Stick with online merchants like Amazon and Barproducts.com, or your local restaurant supply store, and you'll save a bundle.

Here's what Ellis suggests picking up: a 2-piece or 3-piece shaker ($7-15); a pint glass or mixing glass ($2-10); an "elbow" citrus press ($12-20); a few 285-50 metal speed pours ($6 ttl); two jiggers: a 1/2+1 oz. and a 3/4+1.5oz. ($4 for both); 3 strainers: hawthorne, julep, and tea/fine/conical ($6 for all 3); a bar spoon ($2-6); a "y-peeler" ($4); a muddler ($5); a knife; and a cutting board.  

GLASSWARE:

Browse for bar glassware online, and you may experience sticker shock. Getting all the requisite glass shapes (martini, highball, old-fashioned, etc.) can feasibly set you back hundreds of dollars. But Ellis thinks that's a waste of time. You can find everything you need at your local thrift store. "For about $20 you'll have a vintage set of cocktail glasses that will look amazing," Ellis says. "And more importantly, they'll fit the bill for serving up the classics."

BOOKS:

Ellis recommends just two: Salvatore Calabrese's Classic Cocktails and Dale DeGroff's The Craft of the Cocktail. "They have all the recipes, tips, tricks, and techniques you'll need to be off to the races," he says. 

With this set-up, you should be able to make everything from a Martini to a Manhattan, an Old Fashioned to a Margarita, a Negroni to a Moscow Mule. Sure, you may not have a fancy basement pub like Paul Rudd. But Ellis insists that a great home bar can exist just about anywhere. 

"Dump out your junk drawer and make it into a cocktail drawer," he says. "Yes, women are impressed by a man that can cook. But nobody got lucky after a couple of quiches. Learn how to whip up some classic cocktails at home and thank me later."

Friday, September 26, 2014

Latest Ebola News: Third American doctor infected with Ebola cured and released


Third American doctor Rick Sacra, who was infected with Ebola, has been discharged from the Nebraska Medical Centre, where he was receiving treatment for the disease for more than three weeks. ‘It was very gratifying for the entire team that treated Dr. Sacra to see him walk out the doors healthy again,’ Phil Smith, medical director of the biocontainment unit at the Nebraska Medical Centre, said during a press conference in Omaha Thursday.



Sacra, 51, was discharged after successive blood tests showed he was free of the virus. The physician’s release came on the same day as the announcement of the death of Spanish missionary Manuel Garcia Viejo, who became infected with Ebola in Sierra Leone and was taken to Madrid for medical treatment. The World Health Organization Thursday raised to 2,917 its tally of the number of deaths from the virus in West Africa, where 6,263 cases have been registered.


‘I am so grateful. Just so incredibly grateful to have gotten through this illness!,’ Sacra said Thursday. ‘Thanks to God and to the team here at the Nebraska Medical Centre!’ This week, the medical centre announced that Sacra was being treated with the experimental medication TKM-Ebola. Sacra also received a blood transfusion from Kent Brantly, the first US doctor with Ebola treated in the US and who also recovered from the illness.


Brantly and nurse Nancy Writebol were treated at the Emory University Hospital in Atlanta. Another American, whose identity has not been made public, was transferred three weeks ago to Emory Hospital to receive treatment after being infected with the Ebola virus.


Here are some common myths regarding Ebola.


Myth #1: Ebola is not real


Fact: Ebola is real and is caused due to a virus.


 The virus is thought to have been spread from animals to man and is capable of being contagious even before any symptoms are seen. Having killed over 700 people, the Ebola virus is known to be fatal 90% of the times. This apathy was highlighted in a news report by NEWSY, where Dr Sanjay Gupta said in an interview with CNN that people in Africa have a severe lack of knowledge regarding the virus and how it spreads. They touch the bodies of people who have died due to the infection, and  get infected. This then spreads to people around them. Apart from that in a startling revelation, one person interviewed in Africa said that he did not believe that Ebola was real, while eating a piece of bush meat. As the disease continues killing, it is this belief that only makes the situation worse. 


Myth #2: Ebola can only spread through blood


Fact: Ebola can spread through all body fluids including blood, sweat, semen, saliva and any other discharge.


This is mainly because of the way the virus attacks the body. Apart from affecting a person’s immune system, Ebola multiplies extremely fast and soon spreads throughout a person’s body. It then systematically infects all systems of the human body – barring the nervous system. This leads to bleeding and breakdown of all the defense mechanisms of the body. The infection becomes so severe that at a given time there can be up to 1000 viral cells in one drop of body fluid (especially blood). Read more about Ebola Facts: Top 7 myths busted


With inputs from IANS


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Wednesday, September 24, 2014

If He Was Scammed, It Was Worth It

There was a knock on the driver's-side window of my mother's Passat. I turned to see a 40-something guy with glasses, seemingly middle class. "Excuse me, I'm sorry, excuse me, I'm very sorry," he was saying, while motioning for me to roll down the window.

I had just left the Milford, Connecticut service plaza and climbed into the car; he was there so quickly, he must have followed me out from the lobster roll stand inside.

I took my window down a little bit, and asked warily, "What's up?"

He started into his story, peppering it with apologies for bothering me, yet continuing to bother me. It was a tale of a broken-down car, lost wallet, hungry children waiting by the side of the road and the need for just $26 more for a tow truck. He would pay me back if I gave him my address and phone number. He seemed the requisite amount of desperate, but you never know.

I was pretty sure this was a scam, but paused a bit to digest it all. He launched into a repeat of his pitch again, only this time he added something that caught my attention. "And we were visiting my father," the man said, "who has Alzheimer's, at the place where he lives up the road."

Here, my listening went from "somewhat polite" and "tolerant" to "did he really just say that?"

I got out of the car. Up until then, I had been through this game before. One late night in Chicago, a guy who looked homeless ran up to me just as I parked my car and rattled off a similar speech about a broken-down car and the need to raise money for a tow truck. It was very late and although he looked car-less as well as homeless, I threw $5 at him and said good luck as I briskly walk-ran into my apartment building. Another night, years later in Brooklyn, I just walked away mid-story from a scary-looking guy. It's not like I don't want to help people, but these guys seemed more predatory than needy.

But this time, in Milford, Conn., I asked the guy to repeat what he had just said. He did. Then I told him my story.

"Two hours ago, I dropped off my father at an Alzheimer's facility where he's probably going to live for the rest of his life," I told him. "Two weeks ago, my mother died, after a severe stroke that hit out of nowhere, at a restaurant after a show I directed. I have 6-year-old twins that I haven't seen in almost two weeks. I just left Long Island, where my dad is now in that facility, and am driving to Boston, where my kids have been staying with their other grandparents.

"This is my story," I added soberly, "and it is real." In that moment, the tragically surreal events of my summer that had only been running on a continuous loop in my head, burst out of my mouth like bullet points. To some stranger that I didn't like at first glance yet.

I think I raised my voice a bit then, and maybe scared the guy. He backed off just a little.

"I'm going to tell you right now that if your story is a scam, if you've made up all of this--especially the part about having a father with Alzheimer's--just to get a few bucks out of me, then …" Then I stopped. I censored myself.

If I knew for a fact, 100 percent sure, that he was lying, I think I might have hit him. I don't hit people. I'm a nice Jewish boy who spent the previous three weeks sleeping on his parents' couch, half of it mourning the sudden loss of my mother and watching my father deteriorate even faster after her death as his mind continued to betray him. I'm sad, I'm bone-tired, I'm not violent. Yet, the idea that the universe might have sent this man to taunt me with this sob story or make me think that we made a wrong decision about my Dad or I don't know, just push a button I never even knew I had. Why did I want to hit this guy?

He looked scared but was shaking his head. "No, it's the truth, I swear."

In all my nice-guy-toughness I said to him, "If you're lying, then you need to know that you are scum. Lower than scum. And this is the wrong day to tell your story to the wrong person. If you're lying, then you are … you are just not a nice person and you should know that about yourself." (I wish I had said something more profound than "not a nice person," but, well, I am no more practiced at cursing strangers out than at beating them up.)

Stammering a bit now, he said it again: "I'm telling you, it's all true."

Two or three more long seconds of staring at him was probably not enough time to truly judge a man's soul, but I didn't want to live with the possibility that he was me, only short a few bucks. I reached into my pocket and pulled out a twenty.

"Thank you, thank you," he said. "Give me your address, I promise I'll pay you back, I promise."

"That's OK," I told him. "Next time, you can help someone else. Just do that."

The guy stuffed the $20 in his pocket and fast-walked back into the service center. I got into my car and back on the road, my mind and heart racing. After a bit I just shook my head: "Did that just happen?"

During the rest of my drive, I replayed the whole episode over and over again in my head, trying to convince myself that the guy wasn't a scumbag con artist, just a guy down on his luck. Not just because I wanted to feel better about giving him money. I also wanted to believe, in a weird way, that our brief encounter had some meaning.

Would I have told a stranger in a parking lot about my dad's disease just to get $26? I guess I wouldn't, but who knows what you'll do when you get desperate? But then again, I had just told him everything about my family for no money. Why the hell had I done that? And why did it feel so cathartic?

I try every day to remember everything I can about my Dad--not just dwell on my latest memory of him sitting in his new room in a comfortable but depressing facility, surrounded by pictures of my mom and siblings and his grandkids, all in a futile effort to make sure he remembers us. I need to remember the stories. Funny stories, serious stories, learning stories--Dad stories.

But at least at the moment, his Alzheimer's has taken center stage. And that's unfair. It's infuriating. You want your old dad back, the one you remember. And there's nothing you can do to keep him from slipping away.

When you tell people that your dad has Alzheimer's, you start to realize how big a universe it is for parents with horrific diseases. I have friends with family members ravaged by ALS and Parkinson's. Almost everyone has a story, a sad story. You don't realize what helpless feels like until it happens to you.

There was something weirdly satisfying about unloading on this guy, telling him all the ugly truths about what had happened to my parents. Not in the way that your friends want to hear as they're trying to comfort you. In an angry burst, with all the raw emotion, to a stranger who may be going through the same thing.

That's what I really got for my $20. The chance to be angry, and to shout at another human being about how righteously unfair and fucking awful it really was. Maybe he understood because he was going through the same thing. Or maybe he was just a hapless scam artist who didn't realize what he'd gotten into.

Either way, it felt like money well spent.

The Time Matt Dillon Ruined My Chance of Hooking Up with 7 Hot Models

When you're the only male in a limo full of fashion models hitting the town to get laid, you don't really stop to wonder how it all happened. You just try and enjoy it. But because you're wondering, I'll fill you in…

A decade or so ago, I wrote a newspaper column in which I tried various tasks I clearly wasn't qualified to do; it was like "Dirty Jobs" meets "Jackass." One of my first jobs was a backstage dresser at a fashion runway show. I got the gig thanks to a recommendation by a model I'd once written about. It also helped that I pretended to be flamingly gay.

Once my inability to identify basic items of female clothing (and my drooling) made it clear that a prank was afoot, some of the models--the few who weren't incensed--admired my chutzpah and invited me out for what was, I assumed, a typical night on the town for them.

Because it wasn't a "typical" night for me, a 5-foot-5 man with no money, I rehearsed pretending to be someone who wasn't impressed with the very real possibility of living out every sexual fantasy he'd ever entertained to this point. I also purchased the most expensive champagne I could squeeze onto my debit card and memorized a set of five specially tailored jokes to fall back upon, in case the evening hit any lulls in laughter or orgasming.

The limo pulled up outside my apartment building. As soon as the driver opened the door, it became apparent that my first role was not stud, jester or even provider. It was errand boy. Anya, a blond model from Poland, had me direct our driver to the nearest gas station, into which I ran and purchased more OJ to mix with the Skyy limo vodka.

The conversation between seven gorgeous models who are good friends was a clusterfuck of namedropping; not just people, but places and fashion terms I didn't recognize. Models are geniuses of a very specific moron world, and trying to keep up felt like being at an adult party when you're a tyke: You try to find some piece of something you can chime in on every five minutes to score a laugh without sounding uninformed. Before we were even halfway to our destination, four of my jokes had been used--to only middling effect--and I had forgotten the fifth.

I'd been to the Sunset Room, L.A.'s club de jour, but not even remotely like this. A huge African-American man, probably the same one who made me wait in line for two hours a month earlier, unhooked and lifted the red velvet and ushered us immediately into the main club, which I mistakenly assumed was our destination. Anya walked us into an unoccupied wing, where a doorway led to a set of stairs guarded by an even huger African-American man.

Upstairs was not particularly nice. It was a well-lit rooftop lined with five or six green tents, closed but slitted slightly open so occupants could see out without being seen. Now I understood about the "no guys." Fresh and well-lit meat was being delivered to whomever lurked behind the slits.

Suddenly, Matt Dillon stepped out to introduce himself. Sort of. He was not particularly nice, either.

"Hey girls, come here," he demanded.

The ladies complied, of course, because "There's Something About Mary" had come out just a few years earlier and Dillon was at the height of his superstardom. This left me standing outside, by myself, next to a cheese tray. As the girls filed in to chat with Dillon, I saw what they didn't: Denzel Washington was emerging from the tent on the right and watching them, apparently cursing himself for not being as quick on the slit. (Little did they know how close they came to spending the evening with the winner of an Oscar instead of a Blockbuster Entertainment Award.)

After my lifelong preference for Swiss was confirmed by sampling all 12 other cheeses, Dillon and a dorky sidekick exited their cabana with all seven of my former models and an apparent plan. Anya saved my evening, and an $80 cab ride home, by motioning for me to follow them down the stairs. I never knew where beyond-hot chicks went when they left a club, but I was about to find out. This time, I was coming with them.

The models went to salsa-dance at a nearby Latin bar called the Conga Room. Dillon and his dorky sidekick were there before our limo arrived. Once again, the ladies and I bypassed the line and were ushered inside. Since Dillon now realized I was an unshakeable part of his model package, he introduced himself to me in a manner that communicated that I have switched entourages. Instead of being in theirs, I was now in his. (This was four years before Matt's little brother, Kevin, redefined the term for a generation.)

To seal this new arrangement, Dillon lit two cigarettes and offered me one. I told him I don't smoke and received the first of many "you're not really one of us" looks of the evening. He handed the rejected cigarette to his dorky friend, who shook his head at me.

Probably the strangest thing about being part of a celebrity entourage was how taboo it was to discuss the host celebrity's career. I discovered this when I tossed out a "Flamingo Kid" reference. Everybody mentioned "There's Something About Mary" to him, so I figured he would appreciate in his newest entourage member having been a fan 15 years ahead of everyone else.

It was at this point that I received the second of those "you're not really one of us" looks. Dillon grabbed one of the models, Dena, and began dancing and making out with her on the dance floor. Dena was half-Irish and half-Mexican. She was married, but she and her husband each had an agreed-upon list of celebrities they were permitted to cheat with. And, so she claimed, Matt Dillon was on hers.

The next memory I have is of being at Mel's Drive-In on the Sunset Strip with the severest cases of hunger and blue balls ever simultaneously experienced by any male in history. Our waiter introduced himself and let Dillon know how much he loved "There's Something About Mary." After dessert, Dillon tried desperately to convince Dena and Kelly to return to his place. But then two female fans who'd been eyeing him all night interrupted.

"Your first movie was what?" one of them asked.

"Great, girls, thanks," Dillon said as Dena and Kelly walked away.

Dillon then applied pressure to another model, one he had barely spoken to.

"Come on," he said. "I know you've got nowhere better to be."

A frustrated Matt Dillon was now scribbling his cell number on slips of a ripped-up takeout menu for all seven models. I was watching the ultimate football captain transform into a standard-issue A/V geek before my eyes.

As anyone who has ever watched video of a lion chasing gazelles knows, you separate out one and you focus. You don't let yourself be fooled by the movements of the entire herd. But guys who have everything handed to them during their sexual lives are apparently not lions. What need is there to develop hunting skills when prey is regularly delivered through stairwell doors and all that's required is the opening of a tent slit?

On the limo ride back home, I asked Dena why she blew off someone on her actual marriage cheating-clause list.

"I decided I don't want to be with Matt Dillon," she said. "It's fun to make out with him because of who he is and what I can tell my husband. But he is so skanky."

What began as my fantasy night, which became a nightmare of watching a celebrity hijack my fantasy, had needle-jumped to the fantasy side once again.

I mean, not that I ever saw any of these girls again. And I'm sure Dillon opened up his black book as soon as we left and made a phone call that insured some action for him and his friend. Either that or he found those other girls and named his first movie.

But at least I didn't have to watch any of that.

The Most Incredible Thing Your Beer Gut Can Do

Last week I read a story about a magical man from Texas with a rare gift, and now I have a new dream: to jump the biological rails and brew beer in my own stomach.  

But it's a tall task. According to experts, I have better odds of dying in a plane crash than making my dream come true. 

See, I've been ringing up medical professionals to ask how I can contract a condition so strange that it sounds like one of those offbeat diseases you'd hear about on House. It's called auto-brewery syndrome, where, per microbiologist Michael Schmidt, Ph.D., "your stomach has been converted into a brewery."

It sounds awesome.

About 50 cases have been reported in various medical journals across the globe. Probably the most famous came a few years back. You see, this 61-year-old Texan--my inspiration--went to the emergency room after blowing a 0.37 percent blood alcohol concentration (BAC) on a breathalyzer despite not having a drop of booze all day. Stranger yet, it wasn't his first immaculate inebriation. He was frequently intoxicated without so much as a sniff of booze.  

After doctors did some sleuthing, they determined the guy had accidentally ingested significant amounts of brewer's yeast over the years while making his own beer. This, in addition to a cleansing dose of antibiotics, had paved the way for some microbiological magic whenever he ate a starchy meal like pasta. 

"These factors led to the body converting normal sugar to alcohol, like you would with a home brewing kit," says Donald Dumford, M.D., an infectious disease specialist in Akron, Ohio.

I'm already mentally concocting potions for my own gut--a dash of antibiotics here, a sprinkle of yeast there, maybe a handful of hops to brew up a hearty IPA within my gastrointestinal keg.

I start quizzing the experts like a cat burglar casing an art museum--inquiring about, you know, how someone could create auto-brewery syndrome on their own. Just, um, hypothetically speaking. 

The good news, they tell me, is that auto-brewery syndrome is easy to stop. Doctors in Texas shut down their patient's micro-distillery like the 18th Amendment with only a dose of antifungals and some yogurt.

Unfortunately, gut fermentation is far harder to actually kick into gear. "Basically, you'd have to be the Walter White of home brewers to figure out how to do it on purpose," says Dr. Dumford. "It would be nearly impossible." 

"How the auto-brewery condition manifested is a mystery," Schmidt adds.

I hear the words, but I'm still a little beer goggled by these dreams. I soldier onward, searching for a glimmer of hope for my belly beer.  

I am told auto-brewery syndrome seriously throws the body out of whack on a microbiological level, screwing up blood pressure, body temperature, even your ability to taste. And, oh yeah: "You would have all the secondary effects of chronic alcoholism, like cirrhosis of the liver," Dr. Dumford says.   

As if reading my mind, Schmidt sends one more warning shot across the bow: "The other waste product other than alcohol is gas." I picture my spare tire inflating with more air, bursting apart a pair of button-fly jeans, like Veruca Salt in Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory.  

So, it turns out brewing high-octane hooch inside your own stomach isn't nearly as much fun as it sounds. I know when I am beat. I wave the white flag and decide to simply get drunk the old fashioned way.

"Is there anything good about this stupid thing?" I ask.

"Yes," Schmidt says. "Scientists and doctors are researching how to take something as bizarre as getting drunk from a high-carb meal to developing a strategy to treat one of the more serious problems facing our species today: obesity."

It's a nice consolation prize, but I can't help but appreciate the sweet irony. Just imagine: The beer in one man's gut may someday be used to treat the rest of our beer guts.

4 Ways to Make Stinky Fish More Appetizing

As a health editor, I know I should eat more oily fish.
I also know that I hate oily fish. See the problem?

Omega-3 fatty acids are what make these fish mega-healthy. In a 2012 study by Dariush Mozaffarian, M.D., of the Friedman School of Nutrition Science and Policy at Tufts, people who ate the most omega-3s were 29 percent less likely to develop atrial fibrillation than those who took in the least. "Omega-3s may have an electrical stabilization effect that ensures that heart cells don't fire erratically," says Dr. Mozaffarian. These fab fats have also been linked to better brain and joint health.

Most guys aren't reeling in those benefits because they're taking in a minnow's worth of omega-3s. The average American man's weekly intake of omega-3-rich fish is just over an ounce, according to a 2014 Nutrition Journal study. The American Heart Association recommends 7 ounces of fish (especially oily fish) a week. That's about 250 milligrams of omega-3s a day, says Dr. Mozaffarian. Which fish can help? Per 3-ounce serving, anchovies deliver 1,783 milligrams, mackerel 1,131, Pacific sardines 1,246, and Atlantic herring 1,253.

Yep, these are the fish I called "stinky" as I watched my granddad eat 'em straight from the can. But anchovies and sardines are low in potentially toxic mercury, high in protein, and cheap next to wild salmon fillets. And tastebuds can be trained. "It's called flavor-flavor conditioning," says Debra Zellner, Ph.D., a professor at Montclair State University who studies taste. The process involves incorporating a food you don't like into a dish you do like. "Eventually you like the food plain."

Here are four recipes to ease your palate from least fishy to most pungent. Try them. I did--and now I'm an afishionado. Granddad would be proud. And so will my cardiologist.

Spaghetti con Acciughe

Spaghetti con Acciughe

FISHINESS FACTOR 2 out of 5

4 oz oil-packed anchovies, drained and rinsed
1 garlic clove, minced
1 lb whole wheat spaghetti
1 onion, finely chopped
6 tbsp extra-virgin oliv oil, divided
1 tsp tomato paste
1/4 cup golden raisins, soaked in warm water for 10 minutes, drained
1/3 cup chopped parsley
Zest and juice of 1 lemon
1/4 cup toasted pine nuts, finely chopped

1 Boil a large pot of salted water. Mince 2 anchovies; mash them with the garlic. Boil the pasta till almost al dente. Drain, reserving 1/4 cup of the water.

2 Saute the onion on medium high in 4 Tbsp olive oil with a pinch of salt until softened, 3 to 5 minutes. Lower the heat to medium. Stir in the anchovies and tomato paste; cook 1 minute. Add 3 Tbsp water and toss. Add the raisins, extra anchovies, and salt. Cook till the flavors meld, 2 to 3 minutes. Add pasta, pasta water, parsley, lemon zest and juice, and 2 Tbsp olive oil. Heat, season, top with nuts.

Makes 6 servings
--Marco Canora, chef of Hearth, Manhattan

OUR GUY SAYS. . .
"I've never cooked with anchovies. I was amazed to see them dissolve into the creamy sauce."

Mackerel with Miso Broth and Jalapeno Daikon Relish

Mackerel with Miso Broth and Jalapeno Daikon Relish

FISHINESS FACTOR 3 out of 5

1/2 cup diced daikon radish
1/2 small jalapeno, minced
1 garlic clove, minced
1 1/2 tsp minced ginger
Zest and juice of 1 lemon
1 tbsp chopped cilantro
1 scallion, green tops only, thinly sliced
1 tsp mirin
1/4 cup plus 1 tbsp extra-virgin olive oil
1/2 cup vegetable broth
1 tbsp red miso
1/2 tbsp butter
4 mackerel fillets, 6 oz ea
Lemon wedges

1 In a medium bowl, mix the radish, jalapeno, garlic, ginger, lemon zest and juice, cilantro, scallion, and mirin. Gradually add 1/4 cup oil, whisking continuously until combined. Season and reserve.

2 In a small pot, boil the broth. Remove it from the heat and add the miso and butter. Reserve. Next, preheat your grill to direct high heat. Brush the mackerel with oil and season both sides. Grill until seared, about 3 minutes on each side.

3 Transfer the fish to 4 bowls; add 2 Tbsp broth to each. Top with relish and lemon wedges.

Makes 4 servings
--Todd Lean, chef of Pod, Philadelphia

OUR GUY SAYS. . .
"This fish is sweet and clean-tasting. It's even better with the smoky broth and sharp relish."

Fisherman's Eggs

Fisherman's Eggs

FISHINESS FACTOR 4 out of 5

1 container oil-packed sardines, broken into pieces, oil reserved
1 small shallot thinly sliced
2 tbsp finely chopped parsley
2 garlic cloves, minced
4 eggs
Hot sauce

1 Preheat the oven to 500°F and then heat a baking dish in it for 5 minutes. In a small bowl, mix the sardines and their oil with the shallot, parsley, and garlic; add pepper to taste. Carefully remove the dish and add the sardine mixture. Bake until the garlic softens, about 6 minutes.

2 Take the dish out of the oven. Gently crack the eggs over the fish. Season and return the dish to the oven. Bake until the whites set, 5 to 7 minutes. Remove and wait 5 minutes so the eggs finish. Serve with hot sauce.

Makes 2 servings
--Adapted from The Silver Spoon (its comic book version is out now)

OUR GUY SAYS. . .
"Sardines have about 20 grams of protein per can, so this simple breakfast fills me up until well past noon."

Pickled Herring Smorrebrod

Pickled Herring Smorrebrod

FISHINESS FACTOR 5 out of 5

1 slice danish-style rye or pumpernickel bread
1 large leaf of romaine lettuce
1 slice heirloom tomato
1 slice onion
1 radish, thinly sliced
1 container herring in wine sauce (use 4 to 6 fillet pieces)
Fresh dill and parsley, to taste

1 Top the bread with lettuce and follow with the tomato and onion slices, radish rounds, herring pieces, and dill and parsley, in that order. Finish with sea salt and freshly ground pepper, if desired. Serve the sandwich with a knife and fork, or just eat it with your hands.

Makes 1 serving

Danish smorrebrod sandwiches are built for freestyling when it comes to toppings.
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Sudden Cardiac Arrest: The Young Man's Heartstopper

Around 4 p.m. on December 13, 2011, Justin Repshas's girlfriend dropped him off at his studio apartment in downtown Charleston, South Carolina. The couple arranged to meet for dinner later and then study for finals at the college library. Meantime, Repshas, 22, told her, he'd take a nap or go running.

That April, Repshas had completed Charleston's premier 10K road race, the Cooper River Bridge Run, in a time of 44:20. Most often these days, however, he ran just to cope with the stress of college life. "I had this little 3-mile route I'd take," Repshas recalls. "It went down a heavily traveled road and then cut over to a quieter street."

Shortly after his girlfriend left, he laced up. "I vaguely remember heading out my door," he says. "My next memory was waking up in a hospital bed."

Most of us have been schooled ad naseum about cardiovascular plumbing catastrophes. Chief among these is the classic heart attack, or myocardial infarction, which typically happens when a piece of cholesterol-laden plaque ruptures and causes a clot to form in a coronary artery, quickly starving the heart muscle of oxygen-rich blood.

Less well known but equally lethal is sudden cardiac arrest, or SCA. This is a catastrophic malfunction of your heart's electrical system, a finely tuned series of electrochemical signals that keeps your heart chambers squeezing and relaxing in coordinated rhythm. When something bollixes up these signals, your pump isn't able to circulate blood effectively. Within seconds, your brain is deprived of oxygen and you collapse.

The American Heart Association reports that every year, an estimated 420,000 Americans suffer SCA outside of a hospital setting. A staggering nine out of 10 of these victims will die as a result--and 60 percent are men.

"But it's a little more complicated than just saying it's more common in men," says Gordon F. Tomaselli, M.D., chief of the cardiology division at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine in Baltimore. "The gender gap in SCA is wider at younger ages." This means guys from their teens to their 40s are even more likely than their female counterparts to perish young.

The reasons for this deadly discrepancy aren't entirely understood. Scientists who study SCA do know that it typically has two components: There's a "substrate," the underlying health problem or environmental factor that can predispose the heart to lethal arrhythmias, and a "trigger," the actual event that eventually trips a vulnerable heart over the edge. Metaphorically speaking, the substrate loads the gun and the trigger fires it.

"The substrate conditions that people get at a young age are rare but occur with roughly equal frequency in men and women," explains Joseph E. Marine, M.D., the associate director of electrophysiology at Johns Hopkins Hospital.

There are some theories that hormones may help protect young women. It's also possible that the SCA comes from the trigger side--specifically from gender differences in athletic culture.

You heard that right: The way men train and compete in sports may leave them at greater risk for sudden death than women who have the same hidden disorders. "If women played football, basketball, and soccer at the same frequency and intensity as men," says Dr. Marine, "we might see similar levels of SCA in young women too."

For most healthy men and women, of course, the cardiovascular benefits of regular strenuous exercise are clear. And shunning your sweat regimen wouldn't be a guarantee of survival anyway.

"A sedentary lifestyle isn't necessarily protective against arrhythmias," says Dr. Marine, who adds that he once treated a nonathletic guy in his early 20s who'd suffered SCA while at rest. Men who have a susceptible substrate are in danger of succumbing to cardiac arrest during such benign activities as public speaking, making love, relaxing in the ocean, or even sleeping.

Meg Skeele need to unwind. A nursing student at the Medical University of South Carolina (MUSC), she had just finished her last exam and was driving to a local dive bar with a friend. "But I was talking so much I made a wrong turn," recalls Skeele. To get back on course, she took a curving side road and suddenly saw a cluster of onlookers around the body of a young man.

"They'd called 911," she says. "But otherwise everyone was just standing around not doing anything."

She felt a surge of adrenaline and pushed through the crowd. She checked the young man's wrist, chest, and neck for a pulse. Instead of the bounding thump thump of a healthy heart, all she could detect was a "thready" rhythm as feeble and fluttery as it was irregular.

"His skin was turning bluish gray," she says, "and a bystander said he'd stopped breathing just as I arrived."

Skeele knelt down, interlaced her fingers, straightened her elbows, and began pushing hard and fast on the man's sternum. By an incredible and fortunate fluke, he had collapsed in the perfect position for CPR--his torso lay on the sidewalk and his head was slightly lower and tilted back on the grassy berm. "His airway was completely unobstructed and perfectly straight," she says. "I started doing chest compressions."

Skeele knew that for compressions to be effective, they require a surprising amount of force--much more force, in fact, than many people realize. She depressed the man's rib cage at least 2 inches, enough to risk causing fractures. While she'd practiced CPR on a simulator that same semester, this was her first time performing the lifesaving procedure on a person.

To keep the right rhythm, she sang the Bee Gees' "Stayin' Alive" to herself, timing compressions to the beat. This hit, paramedics will confide, is the most famous song for CPR. But it's hardly the only one. "Another One Bites the Dust" works just as well.

When coronary artery disease leads to a heart attack, the scarring can promote electrical abnormalities, setting the stage for SCA. But many other conditions can also lay the groundwork for early doom. These substrates, which are particularly likely in SCA victims under 35, fall into three categories: structural, electrical, and acquired.

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Maladies of malformation

Structural abnormalities in heart architecture account for most SCAs in active young men. They range from aberrations in chamber walls and interior cavities to defects in heart valves and arteries. Though these may seem like straightforward plumbing problems, the majority kill their victims by impairing the heart's electrical system.

Of all the structural causes for SCA in young men, the most common is cardiomyopathy, a general term for diseases of the heart muscle. "Dilated cardiomyopathy, for instance, leads to an increase in the size of the heart," says Samir Saba, M.D., director of the cardiac electrophysiology laboratory at University of Pittsburgh Medical Center. Like a balloon being inflated, heart muscle stretches, thins, and weakens even as its inner volume expands.

In another form, called hypertrophic cardiomyopathy (HCM), the heart's walls thicken pathologically over time. This genetic disorder occurs in one out of 500 young people and is the single leading cause of sudden heart-related death in U.S. athletes under 40. "Besides thickening, the architecture of the heart muscle tissue also becomes disorganized and prone to scarring," explains Barry J. Maron, M.D., director of the hypertrophic cardiomyopathy center at the Minneapolis Heart Institute Foundation.

How exactly thinning, thickening, scarring, and other pathological changes to the heart muscle promote electrical instability is the subject of much cutting-edge research, says Dr. Marine. Electrical waves follow predictable pathways through the heart, and it's possible that changing the distance that the waves must travel increases the odds of arrhythmia. Similarly, scar tissue within cardiac muscle, whether formed by large-scale or microscopic fibrosis, may create pathways for arrhythmia circuits to develop.

Researchers have identified over 1,000 genetic mutations that cause HCM, and many people who have these mutations are unaware that they carry a potentially life-threatening defect. "The funny thing about such genes," says Todd Miller, M.D., a cardiologist and professor of medicine at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, "is that throughout childhood and your teen years, HCM might not show any manifestations. Have an echocardiogram at age 10 and everything looks fine. But usually by young adulthood, the gene gets turned on."

HCM isn't the only cardiomyopathy caused by mutations. Chris Boland was a promising high school swimmer when a nurse discovered at a blood drive that his heartbeat was somewhat irregular. His family doctor dismissed it, but later that year, Boland's heart began beating erratically during class, leaving him light-headed and so unnerved that he asked his mother to take him to the ER. One year and nearly 100 EKGs and a heart tissue biopsy later, he finally received the official diagnosis: ARVD, or "arrythmogenic right ventricular dysplasia." This rare disorder causes heart muscle fibers to be replaced by fibrous tissue and fat. His swimming--and indeed any high-intensity exercise--had to stop immediately.

"It really sucked, considering how much I'd invested in my swimming career," says Boland, now 22. "But I don't beat myself up anymore. I've accepted that it's just another thing about me."
As this case suggests, diagnosing and treating such conditions, especially when guys appear healthy, is rarely simple. But Boland should consider himself lucky because at least he had symptoms. In many young men who suffer SCA, the first hint of trouble is cardiac arrest itself.

Micheal Bernard, M.D., was commuting home from his job as a fellow in electrocardiology at MUSC. With rush-hour traffic jamming his usual route, he cut down a side street only to come upon a throng of onlookers. In their midst, he saw a woman performing CPR on a man who was lying on the sidewalk. He immediately jumped out to help.

"It's really exhausting for one person to do CPR for an extended time," says Dr. Bernard, 38. He offered to take a turn, but Skeele was so adrenalized and in the zone that she chose to keep going. Dr. Bernard gave her encouragement and began monitoring the man's vital signs. He also dispatched one of the bystanders to check nearby businesses for an automated external defibrillator. None was found.

As Skeele continued chest compressions, the theretofore motionless victim did something that, she says, "scared the living daylights out of me." He took an "agonal" breath.

Agonal breathing, which can occur minutes after the heart stops and is often accompanied by muscle jerks and odd noises, is a literal last-gasp reflex to stay alive. "I didn't expect it at all," says Skeele. "I even stopped CPR for a moment, but Dr. Bernard said, 'No! Keep going, keep going!'"

Time perception is notoriously unreliable in high-stress situations, and neither Skeele nor Dr. Bernard can say for certain how long it took emergency crews to reach the scene. Once help from the Charleston fire department did arrive, the responders quickly used their defibrillator. "It took two or three shocks before we got him out of ventricular fibrillation and into a stable rhythm," Dr. Bernard recalls.

Minutes later an ambulance pulled up, and paramedics took over. One inserted an IV line to administer norepinephrine; another placed an oxygen tube down the man's windpipe. They also strapped a high-tech device around his chest to automate chest compressions. At one point, Dr. Bernard realized that the man had slipped back into V-fib, which meant more shocks to his heart. All told, Dr. Bernard says, the man's heart was defibrillated five to seven times before it finally resumed a regular rhythm.

The victim had no ID on him. All Skeele and Dr. Bernard knew was what the paramedics told them: that the man would be taken straight to Roper Hospital. And with that the ambulance was gone.

If you've ever dissected a frog in biology class, you probably recall how electrical zaps caused the frog's leg to twitch. Cardiac contractions are also initiated by electrical impulses, although these impulses are much subtler than the kind that flows from a wall socket. Cardiac electricity comes from electrolyte ions flowing in, out, and within heart-muscle cells. "In simple terms," explains Dr. Miller, "you have waves of electrical activity that spread through your heart telling the muscle to beat. We call this 'depolarization.' Then the system has to reset itself and the ions go back to where they were before. We call this 'stage repolarization.'"

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Bad wiring and electrical chaos

Your heart's dependence on these coordinated impulses leaves it vulnerable to the second major substrate category: so-called primary problems of the electrical system. Many different charged ions have a role here, but the three dominant players are sodium, potassium, and calcium. The gates that allow them to move back and forth are called channels. "When sodium channels open, for example," explains Dr. Saba, "there's a very rapid and abrupt influx of sodium ions from the outside to the inside of the cell, triggering a contraction." Potassium channels help the heart relax. And calcium channels play dual roles: They allow the contractions of the cells, and they contribute to their electrical activity.

Further complicating this are the multiple subtypes of each ion channel. Together, they adjust your heart to exactly the right tempo and force necessary to meet the circulatory demands of the moment, whether you're sitting in quiet meditation or climbing a mountain. Given such intricacy and precision timing, it's easy to see how minor glitches can sometimes compound into catastrophic failure. Such glitches are collectively called "channelopathies," with the most common being the variety of long QT syndromes (LQTS).

The "QT" here refers to a specific interval in your heartbeat's architecture. If you've ever seen an EKG printout, you know it looks like a repetitive series of spikes, hills, and flatlands. Each of those features represents a distinct electrical wave, which cardiologists have dubbed P, Q, R, S, and T. In people with long QT, the interval between the Q and T waves is just that: too long.

Though this doesn't always cause problems, it does significantly raise the odds of trouble. In a 2011 Circulation review, researchers reported that 30 to 50 percent of otherwise heart-healthy people with LQTS will suffer symptoms, mainly fainting, at some point in their lives. And for an unlucky 3 to 5 percent, the condition will cause SCA.

LQTS can be genetic, which is why when a family member tests positive for a known mutation, cardiologists will often recommend that as many blood relatives as possible be tested too, a process that's known as "cascade screening."

In those who do learn that they carry a mutation, Dr. Tomaselli thus becomes the bearer of mixed news: Most channelopathies can be successfully managed--but it means taking a beta blocker for life, and an end to intense physical exercise. "Some people are absolutely devastated by this," Dr. Tomaselli concedes. "I've had to tell rock climbers, skydivers, pilots, and open-water swimmers to quit a favorite activity because even a momentary loss of consciousness could be fatal."

A realist, Dr. Tomaselli knows that not every patient will take his advice. "Hopefully, nothing will happen to them," he says. "The problem is that we still can't predict on a person-to-person basis when one of these mutations will cause sudden death and when it won't."

Acquiring the afterlife

LQTS is not always inherited. Many times it's caused by certain prescription drugs that have a side effect of prolonging the QT interval. Whenever an external factor such as this leads to sudden cardiac arrest in people without any other risk factors, researchers call it an "acquired" cause for SCA, the third category of substrate.

"As far as LQTS goes, we are talking some really common medications here," says Dr. Saba. "Antibiotics like erythromycin, certain antipsychotic and depression drugs, even some cardiac medications used to treat arrhythmias can be involved." (If you're wondering about any of the pills you pop, the federally funded Arizona Center for Education and Research on Therapeutics maintains a website, QTdrugs.org, where you can access an A-to-Z compendium of problematic medications.)

Unfortunately, you don't always need a prescription to perish from SCA. For those already prone to many types of arrhythmias, over-the-counter stimulants--such as the ephedrine in popular "fat burner" supplements--can push unpleasant palpitations into life-threatening fibrillation. On the depressant side, alcohol is a well-documented cause of acquired SCA. "When young people drink excessively for a significant period of time," says Dr. Saba, "it can cause dilated cardiomyopathy."

Perhaps the saddest of all acquired SCA, albeit one of the rarest, is called commotio cordis. This happens when a blunt force strikes the chest wall in just the wrong place at just the wrong time, causing the heart to go haywire. "There is a vulnerable period in the cardiac cycle, and if a blow happens to be timed to that, then it triggers a lethal arrhythmia most of the time," says Dr. Maron, whose 1995 study in the New England Journal of Medicine helped bring the condition to greater awareness. "But you have to be very unlucky to have this happen."

Unlucky, plus young and male: More than 90 percent of all commotio cordis victims are under 25, and 95 percent are male, according to Dr. Maron's most recent review of the subject, published in the New England Journal of Medicine in 2010. The most common agent of death is a fast-moving baseball, though hockey pucks, lacrosse balls, and even flying elbows can cause commotio cordis too.

Shortly after Dr. Bernard arrived at MUSC Wednesday morning, a colleague asked if he'd heard the news: A runner in his early 20s had gone into SCA on the street and was now in their cardiac unit.

As Dr. Bernard would later learn, the EMS had first tried taking the victim to Roper, a nearby private hospital. But with no identification or proof of health insurance on him, the young man ended up getting bounced to MUSC, a public teaching hospital. Thus yesterday's accidental patient, whom Dr. Bernard never expected to see again, became his ward once more.

The man now had a name: Justin Repshas. The night before, a Charleston police officer had met with a young woman frantic about her boyfriend's disappearance. Having heard on his police radio earlier that a John Doe had suffered a cardiac arrest, the officer asked Jocelyn Bradley for her boyfriend's driver's license and then drove to the hospital. The victim, however, was in such bad shape that the officer couldn't make an ID. So he asked Bradley and Repshas's friends and family members to accompany him to the hospital and have a look.

"He was lying there with a huge tube down his throat, and his face was all puffy," recalls Bradley, still sounding traumatized about their reunion that midnight. "He looked like Justin, but not the one I know. He looked like Justin who was not alive."

When Dr. Bernard met with Bradley and the family that Wednesday, he explained that the doctors had put Repshas in a medically induced coma and chilled his body temperature to reduce brain damage. The protocol at MUSC calls for 24 hours of cooling followed by gradual rewarming. At this point, he would be slowly weaned off the potent sedative propofol and allowed to emerge from the coma. He was currently in stable condition, and they would know more about his prospects for recovery after he regained full consciousness.

After filling in his patient's friends and family, Dr. Bernard knew what he had to do next: Track down the unsung heroine whose timely CPR had saved Repshas's life. He remembered that she was a nursing student at MUSC but not her name. So he sent an e-mail to the nursing school dean.

"The dean then sent out a schoolwide e-mail," says Skeele, who's still embarrassed by the attention. She contacted Dr. Bernard, who arranged for her to visit Repshas and meet his family.

When the elevator doors opened on the cardiac floor, a receptionist pointed out Repshas's mother, Christine Bernock. "I told her who I was," Skeele says, "and she immediately gave me a huge hug." From across the waiting room, everyone else ran over to greet her. "I remember his friend Bertin was this big burly football player," Skeele says. "He said, 'Is this the girl?' and then enveloped me in a bear hug and wouldn't let go."

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How can you tell if you're at risk for SCA?

Unfortunately, you may not be able to. As the 2011 Circulation review points out, nearly half of all SCAs remain unexplained in otherwise healthy people. Even among people who do have some advance warning of trouble, these signs are rarely definitive. "A history of palpitations, particularly if it's associated with passing out or nearly passing out, needs to be evaluated," says Dr. Tomaselli. "It may be nothing, but it could be something." Ditto, he adds, for any "abnormal signature" found on an electrocardiogram, though he concedes that few otherwise fit young men get EKGs.

Other red flags include any history of sudden deaths in your extended family. This includes not only relatives who have died due to documented SCAs but also fatal single-driver car crashes, unexplained drowning of good swimmers, and even sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS).

The rationale for the first two, says Dr. Marine, is that loss of consciousness during cardiac arrest could be what caused a driver to crash or a swimmer to sink. "As for SIDS," he adds, "it's hard to prove a link because it is difficult to detect arrhythmias in infants." Nevertheless, "molecular autopsies"--gene sequencing of large numbers of infants who've died suddenly--are beginning to show that some have mutations linked to LQTS and other substrates.

The good news for people diagnosed before SCA hits is that most can live nearly normal lives, thanks to medications (including beta blockers and antiarrhythmic drugs); changes to avoid triggers (no more intense training, for instance, or prescription drugs that prolong the QT interval); and, in some cases, an implantable cardioverter-defibrillator, or ICD. (See "Backup System for a Bum Ticker.")

As effective as such technology has become, even the most elegant devices may soon become obsolete. Researchers at several labs have begun making great progress on more permanent biological fixes. Last year in the journal Science, for instance, Harvard researchers reported that they'd discovered a way to suppress production of an aberrant protein in mice that had a gene mutation for hypertrophic cardiomyopathy. This was found to delay pathological changes in the rodents' heart muscles for at least six months, giving hope that a similar approach could help prevent a generation of young athletes from being permanently sidelined.

On another front, cardiologists at Cedars-Sinai Heart Institute in L.A. reported in July that they'd found a way to use a minimally invasive gene transplant technique to reprogram ordinary heart cells into biological pacemakers that normalized the heart rate of lab pigs with a condition that dangerously slows the heart rate. Eduardo Marban, M.D., Ph.D., the study author and director of the Institute, said the breakthrough could lead to a long-lasting biological treatment for people too, with human trials potentially starting in three years.

Until then, public health authorities are attacking the SCA problem from a different angle. Though nationwide survival stats remain at a dispiriting 10 percent, some communities are showing that it doesn't have to stay this way.

"There are pockets, such as Seattle and Rochester, Minnesota, where rates of being discharged with intact neurologic function are now 60 to 70 percent," says the Mayo Clinic's Dr. Miller. "In Rochester, for instance, the police department, fire department, and paramedics have a contest among them to see who can reach a victim first with their defibrillator. The response times are very short."

But for those whose hearts have arrested, even "very short" can be too long. According to the Sudden Cardiac Arrest Foundation, every minute a victim goes without CPR and defibrillation, the chance of survival dips by 7 to 10 percent.

On December 15th, with his body temerature back to normal, Repshas began emerging from the coma. "I'll never forget that look on his face when he first opened his eyes," says Bradley. "He was really, really scared and didn't know what was happening. It was heartbreaking, and we didn't want to explain it yet because we didn't want to freak him out."

After multiple tests, specialists in cardiac imaging finally diagnosed Repshas's disorder: a rare cardiomyopathy known as left ventricular noncompaction syndrome. As Dr. Bernard explained, all of us begin life with sponginess in the walls of our heart muscles. As we age, this normally compacts into solid muscle. Researchers aren't sure why, but in rare individuals, such compaction fails to occur.

To guard against future SCAs, Dr. Bernard and his colleagues put Repshas on low-dose beta blockers and placed an ICD a few inches above his left nipple. Eight days after he'd collapsed during his afternoon run, he left the hospital with, as his sister Lindsey describes it, "the exact same witty personality he had prior to the incident." His doctors did advise him to cut back on his course load; they were still unsure whether he'd suffered neurological damage, so they set up an appointment for more brain testing in 30 days.

It took time, Repshas concedes, to come to grips with what had befallen him. But by January, he'd resolved to not let it change him any more than it had to. He signed up for a full course load and canceled the neurology appointment. That spring he achieved a 4.0 and graduated from college.

"It's unfortunate what happened, but I am so lucky too," he says. "There are times I feel almost a euphoria I'm still here. In a way, it's left me happier than before. The little stresses that once bothered me just don't seem so significant."

Today, he and Bradley are building a life together in Fort Worth, Texas, where he's pursuing a master's degree in kinesiology at TCU. He hopes one day to earn a doctorate in cardiovascular physiology and contribute to heart research.

It's the least he can do, he says, to honor the gifts of life and mind that so many former strangers bestowed on him.


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